My loved one didn't want a fuss, how can I fulfil their wishes?

Before 2019, direct cremations accounted for a very small proportion of funerals. COVID-19 accelerated the growth of this kind of funeral (as a necessity), and refreshingly, the amount of people opting for a direct cremation has continued to rise. People are realising that there truly is a way to give your loved one the sendoff they deserve and would like, without feeling guilty for not giving them a ‘traditional’ funeral. Society has, in the past, led us to believe that part of saying goodbye to someone revolved around a big public funeral with lots of mourners. In contrast, a more personal memorial service can be just as fitting and dignified a way to celebrate a life.

Perfect Cremation was born out of founders Katy and Michelle, noticing that more and more people wanted to say goodbye more simply and discretely. Being funeral directors with two successful funeral homes meant they were able to offer the same level of care as they would when coordinating an attended funeral. Many online direct cremation providers are accessed by call centres, and the service provided can feel quite impersonal. Katy and Michelle knew that this didn’t have to be the only way.

A direct cremation is a good way of saying goodbye and avoiding fuss. It gives you the option of celebrating your loved one’s life with a personalised memorial however you wish. The Perfect cremation way means that you are supported throughout the process by a dedicated relationship manager, concluding with your loved one’s ashes being hand delivered within a week of the cremation. Being members of the National Association of Funeral Directors means that our mortuary facilities are inspected regularly, reassuring you that we will take good care of your loved one.

Following a direct cremation, your memorial could be a large family gathering or an intimate trip to the beach for fish and chips. You are free to remember your loved one how you wish without having to consider the availability of a crematorium or place of worship. Some providers, like Perfect Cremation, offer a free online tribute website where you can share memories, add music and photos and light candles.

We’re happy to offer advice and support if you are unsure of the most appropriate way to say goodbye to your loved one. We can explain the direct cremation process and answer any questions. Contact us here.